The Power of the Pause…

The Power of the Pause…

Everybody thinks and everybody talks. But we all have preferences for the order in which we’d like to do those things. Those preferences are hard-wired into us. Regardless of those preferences, we can all occasionally benefit from the power of the pause. Taking a...
When Pressure Builds

When Pressure Builds

It’s so interesting to me how pressure affects different people so, well, differently. Some people seem to speed up and work themselves into a frenzy. Others seem to shut down and become immobilized. And I think we all reach a breaking point where we simply can’t take...
One Small Shift at a Time

One Small Shift at a Time

People don’t change. Not nearly as often or as drastically as we like to think. Sure, you can name exceptions. But big, sweeping, life-altering changes are not an everyday occurrence. A wise and seasoned executive told me once that big changes shouldn’t be the goal....
It’s Just Easier If I Do It Myself

It’s Just Easier If I Do It Myself

“It’s easier if I just do it myself.” Probably true. But is that the best solution? Is efficiency the reason? Or is it the excuse? When we focus on immediate efficiency, we’re being short-sighted. Routinely doing it yourself because it’s easier is a mistake. It...
Ask for What You Need

Ask for What You Need

We face situations all the time where we aren’t getting what we need. I find the most difficult things to ask for are the ones which are less concrete. Asking for help in doing a physical task or solving an IT challenge is one thing. But to ask for what you need in...