“I’ll Just Do It Myself.”
The Problem With “I’ll Just Do It Myself” “I’ll just do it myself.” It sounds efficient. It sounds responsible. It may feel like you’re protecting someone else’s time, or doing them a favor by not adding more to their plate. It may also feel like the fastest way to...
Why “Just Do It” is Terrible Advice
Why “Just Do It” is Terrible Advice Why haven’t I tackled that stack of mail from the past two weeks? Why haven’t I set up dates with friends lately? Why do I end every single work day feeling like I’ve got more on my to-do list than when the day started? And why, oh...
The Question Everyone is Avoiding
The Question You’re Avoiding Is Probably the One You Need to Ask There is usually a question sitting right in the middle of the room. People can feel it. They may even be thinking it. But no one wants to be the person who says it out loud. So instead, we talk around...
